''EVERYTHING IS HARD BEFORE IT IS EASY"
HEY! Its been long to write but yes, here I am .
As a blogger I also get sometime so negative knowing the fact that my work is to motivate others and talk about others and spread positivity . But the truth and the reality that hits even harder to me in this meantime is that no matter who you are , no matter what you do , no matter how much you try to be the savior for others you too need someone to talk to and need one who can know your every move , reaction ,and the ODDNESS in you. Everybody has a phase where s/he feels low and results surrounding with tons of negativity even when you try so harder to be positive but still found yourself in a non-ending lap of what??? NEGATIVITY RIGHT? and to be honest its okay to accept it because accepting the reality makes you more stronger. There is nobody in this world who does not want a Mental health ,Perspective of life , a Perfect life , a Perfect life partner ,a Perfect, a Perfect future- EVERYBODY DOES!!!!! SO DO I and YOU TOO. And it is perfectly even if you feel and wants the same but what is not right when you keep accepting the non-fact that you already have all those because nobody has it whether he is billionaire or a person who sleeps on footpath daily . Because this is the satisfaction of having all of these genuinely in one's life , in a life where we don't pretend to be happy , we don't pretend to having a life of our dream , we don't pretend to having a partner who makes us happy and not giving anxiety.
THAT'S when we will know and achieve a place where we really deserve to be .
POSITIVITY is nothing but a gesture and a feel of being happy in real not in reel. When we really start to getting know what positivity really is then we will get to know and start finding positivity in everything we do and everything we see , everything we desire , everything we speak or listen. And all of the sudden you start finding alot of changes in yourself , you will start loving yourself even more , you will start seeing good in everyone and start staying away from the thing that can really devastate your mental health , inner peace as well as your positive spirit.
I KNOW YOU MUST BE THINKING WRITING THIS SEEMS SO EASY THAN ACTUALLY IMPLEMENTING IN ONES'S LIFE - But trust me it is too hard to write likewise implementing . because sometimes you know what you are really feeling , what emotions you are high on , when your hypothalamus is not acting right and you are having that much anxiety that your brain and it can not be able to coordinate . But being a writer, I believe we can only give a solution to your problems and we finding a solution is even hard than knowing the the problem you are really facing in your daily life whether it is mentally or harshly. we tries our best to express in alot good way that everyone can feel it but the truth it still fails because the person who is really feels the thing can only know the real pain and sadness of the problem . If you really are over a problem and feels like that you must get out from it now then only you can , because as per my very near and dear friend once said to me - If you are feeling sad at a time then just get the whole feel of it so that you need not to feel it again , try to cry if you want because we should only do what we really wants to but make sure that if you really are doing that thing just do it right that you need not to do it again .
STOP JUDGING YOURSELF , START LOVING YOURSELF
STOP FINDING YOURSELF IN CROWD , START FINDING YOUSELF IN DISPERSE.
' LOVE THE LIFE YOU LIVE, AND THE LIFE WILL LOVE YOU! '
So, here I pen down my thoughts, I don't know you missed me or not but clearly I really did . and thanks to the person who made me realize my power and motivated me to write again . So I dedicate this blog to you💗.
-òkieeedokiee
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